We cannot ask a man or woman to build the world we want. We must build it ourselves. Too many times, we hear a man or woman talk about what they want out of a relationship and the things they want are based on life’s desires, not or normal relationship expectations. For example, a woman may say that a man needs to be financially stable, because she has bad credit. A man may expect a woman to have a perfect body, even though he is overweight. If we are being honest, we must find someone who matches our goals, our effort and what we are bringing to the table—Darryl James
